This took place quite a few years ago...I was on a rec league volleyball team with this good-looking guy that a few of the other girls on the team were after, which actually made me not that interested in him initially. I ended up becaming friends with his sister and she told me that he liked me and talked me into calling her brother. We went out and had a run of the mill first date - dinner and a movie.
We then hung out another time and went clubbing in another city with a friend of his. But, every time we went into a bar, he would leave me with his friend as he ran around casing the place first...hmmm...looking for others girls he was dating? I don't know...Anyway, as I was getting out of his vintage car after our long drive home, I spilled my drink all over the front seat and was too embarrassed to tell him. I did eventually call him the next day to apologize and he was pretty upset, but said he could have it fixed. I offered to pay and he refused.
I was happy when we decided to go out again and he was going to pick me up from my place. Well, the time came for him to pick me up and he didn't show - until 2 hours later! He shows up wreaking of alcohol. He was two hours late because he decided to go golfing (and drinking) instead and never bothered to call me. He also came armed with a few movies to watch at my place instead of going out.
Well, being naive back then, I let him in. We start watching a movie and all he wants to do is put the moves on me. Needless to say, I eventually kicked him out of my place and shut my front door in his face. I never said anything to his sister, but he must have told her something because she tried to make excuses that he was going through a rough time in his life but I also messed up with my spill in his car. Needless to say, it was pretty awkward seeing him on the team after that. (Buffalo, NY)